Infectious Expectations

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When the world stopped

but we didn't

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writing

for light

Early Spring 2020.  The world as we knew it stopped for six weeks.

Sequestered in my 18th-floor condo above the city of San Jose, I did the only thing a raging extrovert could… I connected to my people by writing. I started a virtual newsletter to send happy thoughts and opportunities for personal development. It fast turned into my personal musings on where “we” were in our collective aloneness and our deep desire to return to normalcy, whatever that would become. I shared the beautiful moments that were happening all around us – John Krasinski taking kids to prom, a farmer sending KN95 masks to Gov. Cuomo, and Andrea Bocelli singing for the empty streets of the world from the front steps of Florence’s Duomo. 

It was cathartic to write… and I heard from many how the messages provided hope and connection, some even re-read them during particularly difficult days. One university professor incorporated the writings into a course on Pandemic Literature and now I’m publishing them as a record for myself and those who enjoyed them, so that we’ll always remember there was light to be found during those days of uncertainty. There always will be.

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Being Loving is More Important than Being Right

Volume VIII-Juin-XXMM One of my favorite Bay Area summer social traditions has always been the Summer Solstice party thrown by Judy Crawford and her team at Crawford Group. Alas, last year’s party was the finale as Judy moved on to

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Don’t Pretend Not to See

Volume III-Juin-XXMM Note – I’ve decided to re-share a Facebook post I wrote today, as I believe it fits within the spirit of this group.    ❤️, TJL I drove down The Alameda this afternoon and it was difficult to see the businesses

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Healing Thoughts – June 1, 2020

Volume I-Juin-XXMM Can it really already be June? And have we really been managing these world/life/soul changes for >100 days now? Pretty amazing… even for a bunch of absolute rock stars. I dare say we’ll all look back in 10

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We Can Do Hard Thigs 😊

Volume XXI-Mai-XXMM I have shared a lot more than I intended to when I started this little communication outreach project. I honestly thought I was going to forward funny memes, links to interesting stories or personal development opportunities, rah-rah pitches

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Need → Ask → Receive (Brené said so)

Volume XIX-Mai-XXMM I know I’m not alone. And I know who gets this email… we are all a bunch of GIVERS – guilty as charged!  😊 And for a lot of us, “receiving” is really really hard. (Hand in air, Peeps… hand in air.) Brené

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8 for 8! SGN Proves There is Good in this World

Volume XVIII-Mai-XXMM I have been a big fan of John Krasinski’s series of “Some Good News” episodes over the last couple of months, so it is with mixed emotions that I share that last night he posted the final (“8

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SGN Graduation with Oprah, Spielberg, Jon Stewart, & Malala

Volume VIII-Mai-XXMM SGN Graduation with Oprah, Steven Spielberg, Jon Stewart, and Malala In this installment of John Krasinski’s weekly Some Good News programming, he focuses on the lost opportunities of graduates set to be conferred degrees across the world.  But

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Go Create Waves

Volume V-Mai-XXMM I’ve long known that the ripples of what we do – good and bad – roll much further downstream than just the point of where the rock strikes the surface.  I’ve experienced the butterfly effect firsthand when the impact reaches

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